{"id":2154,"date":"2022-04-28T18:18:14","date_gmt":"2022-04-28T09:18:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/magazine.katies.jp\/?p=2154"},"modified":"2022-04-28T18:18:15","modified_gmt":"2022-04-28T09:18:15","slug":"there-is-something-wrong-with-them-not-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/magazine.katies.jp\/?p=2154","title":{"rendered":"There Is Something Wrong With Them, Not You"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

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There Is Something Wrong With Them, Not You<\/strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

A: “I get cheated on in every relationship. What’s wrong with me?”
B: “People who don’t have a purpose in life need constant validation and end up cheating.”<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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“I get cheated on in every relationship. What’s wrong with me?”
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“People who don’t have a purpose in life need constant validation from others and end up cheating, I guess.”
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“I get cheated on in every relationship.”<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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e.g.; “He was cheating at cards.”
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e.g.; “I drink coffee every morning.”
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“What’s wrong with me?”<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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e.g.; “You look sick. What’s wrong?”
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“People need constant validation from others and end up cheating.”<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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e.g.; “I like the new method, but it needs validation.”
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e.g.; “I ended up falling asleep last night.”
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