{"id":1985,"date":"2022-04-21T08:20:23","date_gmt":"2022-04-20T23:20:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/magazine.katies.jp\/?p=1985"},"modified":"2022-04-21T08:20:23","modified_gmt":"2022-04-20T23:20:23","slug":"your-life-is-your-own","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/magazine.katies.jp\/?p=1985","title":{"rendered":"Your Life Is Your Own"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u4e16\u9593\u306e\u300c\u3053\u3046\u3042\u308b\u3079\u304d\u300d\u3068\u3044\u3046\u8003\u3048\u306b\u60d1\u308f\u3055\u308c\u3066\u3001\u300c\u3082\u3063\u3068\u3053\u3046\u3042\u308b\u3079\u304d\u306a\u3093\u3058\u3083\u306a\u3044\u304b\u300d\u3068\u81ea\u5206\u306e\u8003\u3048\u306b\u4e0d\u5b89\u3092\u62b1\u304f\u3053\u3068\u3042\u308a\u307e\u3059\u3088\u306d\u3002\u4eca\u56de\u306f\u3001\u4e16\u9593\u306e\u8003\u3048\u3068\u81ea\u5206\u306e\u8003\u3048\u306e\u9593\u3067\u60a9\u3093\u3067\u3044\u308b\u65b9\u306e\u304a\u60a9\u307f\u3092\u7d39\u4ecb\u3057\u3066\u3044\u304d\u305f\u3044\u3068\u601d\u3044\u307e\u3059\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"has-text-color wp-block-heading\" style=\"color:#b30000\"><strong><strong>Your Life Is Your Own<\/strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>A: &#8220;I&#8217;m turning 30 years old this year. 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